And at the end of the day
November 17, 2021
The world during Covid-19
April 21, 2020
These vibrant and energetic places, now replaced w a certain emptiness and melancholy.
Amid all this, may we develop discipline, patience, endurance, and good habits ♥️
We can do this!
Today..
September 4, 2019
Prioritise YOU
March 28, 2019
My friends would always say, “oh you’re so resilient, I admire your strength, you are a very positive person”, and it made me believe that I am perhaps an optimistic person. Someone who tries to see the glass half full, the rainbow after the rain, the silver lining.
Well, the start of this year was truly something else. One of the toughest experience I ever had to go through in my life. It changed me, made me vulnerable, sad and discouraged me in ways I could not have imagined.
But when everything has been said and done, and time creeps up on you, you begin to realise that you are YOU. And what made you become YOU are all these laughters and tears, shouts and whispers, love and prayers you had to go through.
It’s not easy, I know. Some people break and it’s tough. Its tough to go back up and keep it together. But believe me when I say that you are your own happiness. You owe it to yourself to muster all your strength and become a better version of yourself.
3 months have passed and I am here. Still optimistic. Still striving to be that resilient, strong and positive person my friends know. Because maybe I am that person. That person who chooses love, positivity and happiness.
32
April 16, 2016
How is it that I am now all of a sudden 32? I feel like being 25 was just yesterday. Have things changed? Slightly for the better I’d say, and I am very grateful for that. But it could be a lot better and striving for those goals in life is what’s keeping me busy.
As I look back, I would like to share with you the 5 things I have learned since I stepped into the early adulthood life. Just in case you are interested 😉
- Have certain goals and put a deadline on it
When I was 18 years old, I wrote a bucket list filled with travel plans, career goals, and even material things that I wanted to have at that time. It even included cheap thrills like ask for an autograph or dance in the rain. It was a list of 101 things to do before I turn 30, written on a bond paper (during Lab class in Uni – i remember) and I would take that paper out every time to highlight the things I have already achieved. I was able to accomplish 60% of what’s written and I’m quite pleased with the turn out. So I started a new list of 50 things to do before I turn 40.
At work, it is always emphasized by our company that we need to have a clear goal and a specific timeline. We need to constantly look at it, visualize and work smart to make sure that every day, we are getting closer to that goal. I still have so many things I would like to accomplish and I feel like I am still far from it. But knowing that I will, one day, be able to tick off the numbers on my new bucket list gets me all hopeful and excited.
2. Travel
Spend on experiences, not material things. Choose to travel around Europe or explore South East Asia than to buy that latest iPhone or those new pair of designer shoes. Trust me, being in your 20’s while traveling with your friends will be one of your greatest memories in life. Do not be afraid to travel alone or to meet strangers (well, nice and cool strangers).
Traveling gives you a broader perspective in life. You learn to adapt, you learn to become brave, you learn how to small talk, you learn how to live on a budget and the list just goes on and on. I know, I know.. there are thousands of articles online saying that you should travel. All I could say is, seeing the beauty of the world will make you realize how lucky you are to be alive and to be able.
3. Create multiple income streams
Saving is a must. Having a Retirement Fund is a must. So creating multiple income streams will really be helpful to have a Savings & Retirement Fund especially for a full time employee or a young entrepreneur. When I was 24 years old, I left my corporate job and started a small restaurant business. The first few years were fortunately good. However, business trends change and I found myself getting worried about my finances. That is why I decided to take on another job and have another source of income. Having numerous income streams will actually help you save more because you are earning more. And in today’s world, it is so much easier to have another job or another source of income. One can join Uber or Airbnb, sell items on ebay or Etsy, one can write and sell their articles, or even teach English online. There is no excuse for you to say that you can not save because your salary is not enough. Nowadays, the opportunities are endless. So don’t be ashamed and get moving! “Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle“.
4. Experience life as a single person
Teenagers are so excited to fall in love. I remember, I was. But once you get to your 20’s, now that’s really where the fun begins.
Go meet people, socialize, flirt, do not commit when deep down you know being single is still fun. Many people cheat nowadays. It’s so common that it becomes uninteresting at some point. Being single is fun and then when you are lucky enough to meet that special person, commit because you are ridiculously and happily in love. And when it feels right, life will get even much better.
5. Don’t compare
You will always have that one friend that gets everything. Sometimes you will feel that you and the Universe are not getting along well. A heartache will come, a missed opportunity will fly by. But that is what makes us stronger and better. As you get older, you will realize that it does not take much to make you happy. The important things in life will be the only things that matter (and it will mostly revolve around family, friends and your loved ones). So don’t feel bad if your friend gets to buy a BMW while you still have your old Toyota. If anything, let it inspire you.
Still so many life lessons to share but here’s the most important one, for me at least. They say 32 is the age at which we turn into our parents. Funny but I would say that the message is so on point. My father, who passed away almost a year ago, has always been extremely frugal. This trait has been passed on to me and every time I make monetary decisions, I always remember him. Parents would be so uptight while their children are growing up, however you will slowly realize that everything they do is really actually for us. So love love love your parents. Show it and say it ♥
Madeon!
March 10, 2015
Some tunes to inspire you a lil bit : )
Positivity
February 10, 2014
Good positive energy is all you need. Happy Monday xx
New Year, New Post
January 2, 2014
Last year was all about fun, all about me exploring… Did a LOT of traveling, met new friends and more importantly, fell in love ♥ ♥ ♥ – the best thing that happened in my 2013 : )
Well, this year will be a little different. 2014 will be all about work, saving and getting myself busy hopefully with new projects on the side. I know, what a boring resolution. But all I can think of right now is that in 4 months time, I will be turning 30 and I know I still have sooo many things to accomplish. 11 years ago, I wrote on a piece of paper my “101 dreams before I turn 30”. To date, I have accomplished 54 dreams out of 101. Some would probably take more time (like 28. go on a Mediterranean cruise 61. plan my dream wedding 79. have cute children) and some are mmm, probably no longer appropriate (28. Party in Ibiza 3. Take up my MBA abroad and 22. live in New York – sigh!). But I do can’t wait to tick off these cheap thrills like 35. climb a mountain (doing it this month!!!), 91. ask for an autograph (?) and 97. dance in the rain (i still can’t believe i have never!).
Anyway, I only have 3 major goals for this year and I hope that you too will make everything you’ve ever wished for come true this 2014. Make it happen!
ask yourself
December 20, 2013
#happinessisachoice
Idioma
December 2, 2013
close your eyes. visualize.
Hello. 